Like a guy? Do you have some years between you? Well if you are a little bit older, in college or later you can have more then 4 years in between you, because the years are more alike and you are closer in your life goals as people four, five, or six years older then you. However if you are in high school or in extreme cases in middle school.
My advice for high school is: for freshman don't go higher then a senior, sophomores, same as freshman, you guys are just too young to up on that upper level and all that time apart while he is at college, juniors you can date up to a freshman in college, this is because once you hit your junior year you usually are pretty comfortable and can drive which always makes things better, Seniors considering next year you will be in college you can date a freshman or sophomore in college, maybe a junior, but it's debatable.
Middle schoolers, if you are in sixth or seventh grade date a guy either in your class or a year above, eighth grade you can date either a freshman or sophomore in high school.
Thing is girls you don't need to be dating a guy that is way older then you. For one there is no reason, and the relationship is always more complicated because there are always different schedules. Also even if he makes an effort you are going to ruin his social life with his friends, because everyone knows that not all the friends are going to accept you and throw him out. Which i understand i wouldn't want my best friend dating a guy 3 years younger then him. It will also totally ruin your social life, no matter how hard you try your going to separate yourself from your class and your friends then when you two get in a fight or break there will be no one to turn to or cry on.
It's just not good so don't do it, also don't go for a guy younger the same thing is going to happen either way.
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