Trying to Get Over "That Guy"?

Is it because he is that guy you have liked since you were in 4th grade, was it because he was your first real boyfriend, or your first kiss?
Everyone has problems getting over the guy that was their first heartbreak. I have a couple of ideas to make that time shorter and less hard on the heart.
First off what a better way to not think about guys then to be surrounded by girls? Make a pact with your girls that it is a no boy night. Do a all out sleepover or go on the town and be happy, if he isn't on your mind he isn't weighing on your heart either.
My second idea is does everything you do remind you of the times when you were with him. Get a new look. I don't mean plastic surgery girls, i just mean maybe a haircut change the way you do your makeup wear different clothes then you usually do. The day i broke up with one of my boyfriends I had  hair cut, when it was done, I felt like I was a new me and he wasn't part of that me.
My last and most gutsy idea. Start talking to a new guy. It doesn't have to be you want a serious relationship, just talk and maybe grab a Starbucks. The easiest way to get over a guy is to find a new one right?

Now listen to this song, my friend suggested it to me.
Not Ready to Make Nice (Dixie Chicks)