Sunday, July 14, 2013

Body Language

Your body language can tell a guy if your into him, don't like him, or just want to be friends. 

If you like him 
Sit by him as often as possible and make conversation. Listen to him attentively but act like you are distracted and smile at him often. When you see him doing something comment on it, never negative, but give him suggestions on how to make it better. When the cutie walks by your friends will most likely try to embarrass you, don't let them smile at him and wave. Eat clean and neat around him, you don't want him to think your a pig. When you guys get close don't be afraid to blush, guys think it's cute, don't be afraid to move away a little bit. While you are sitting look around but keep your legs and body pointed in his direction. Laugh & smile a lot, it is really obvious but oh well you want him to know you like him. Get a lot if inside jokes with him, this is one a conversation starter and two a good way to get close. Be near him whenever you can, not in a stalker-ish way but just to let him know you want to be close with him. Use your eyes, you know the old saying eyes are the window to the soul, use them to talk to him. Bite your bottom lip, not hard, just kind of slowly move your teeth over your bottom lip this draws attention to your lips and they guy usually thinks about kissing you. Twirl your hair, not often, but just enough to get his attention to you. Don't be afraid to put your hands on him, Lets say you and the other person are sitting next to each other, say a funny joke, while you guys are laughing, casually put your hand on this shoulder

If you don't him (want the conversation to end) 

Keep your answers and sentences short, this tells him that he isn't really interesting you. Get plenty of distance in between you, if he tries to move closer, move fairer away, this tells him that you don'y want to be close. If you see a friend or cutie walk by say you have to go meet up with him or her, one this makes him feel like you have better things to do then talk to him, two if you walk away with a cutie he gets ideas your taken. You can always just walk away with a lame excuse. 

If you just want to friends 

Don't dress up for him, if he is coming over just wear sweats, this tells him that you aren't tying to impress him. If your haning out in public flirt with other guys, this means you are still on the market and are looking to be taken off by someone that isn't him. Try to set him up with friends let him think you want him to be happy with someone other than you. Call him friend, buddy, or bro a lot, this lets him know you are seeing him as a friend and nothing more. Always keep a good amount of distance between you, remember though you guys are friends so you should be close, but not that close if you know what i mean. Get physical punch him on the arm or go play one on one and don't go easy on him, if you liked him you wouldn't punch him or go hard on him on a one on  one. Never let there be awkward silence, this gives you and him time to think and i promise you the first thing that is in the back of your minds is what if this friendship was something more, you don't want that so no silence. 



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