Can't Help But Mess Up Around Your Crush?

No feeling makes you act more stupid then love. Maybe you don't love him, but any kind of special feeling toward another person is a kind of love. It can make you do the stupidest things. Like: running into another person in the hall because you can't take your eyes off them, Dumping food all over yourself in the cafeteria cause he looked at you, when ever you guys talk your words are slurred, you repeat yourself and the main topic of your conversation was elephants cause you couldn't say anything other than that because you were so nervous.
I have a few tips to make you a little less nervous around him.
Make a Game Plan
Have you and your best friend make a plan to what you are going to say, how your going to say it, body language, and facial expressions. This way when you have to talk to the cutie and the main subject won't be elephants.
Assign a Deadline 
There is no better way to make you less nervous is to just get the first conversation over with. Make a deal with one of your friends that you will talk to him by this date. If you are really ballsy make a bet if you don't you have to give up something.
Treat Him Like Your Bestie 
Treat him like a friend, not your knight in shining armor. Make jokes with him just stay cool, calm, and collected. Just like you are with your friends. The best and most successful couples act like each others best friends. You don't have to worry about messing up around your best friend and you can say the stupidest stuff in front of your best friend. You can do the same thing in front of your crush, because he is a normal person.
Press the Send Button 
It is a known fact that people have more confidence while not facing the person. Log into your Facebook and message him just a simple message like: Hey do you understand the chemistry assignment? This however can only work for so long you just need this Facebook connection to help you figure out he is a normal person and give you the confidence to talk to him in person. So talk to him that night then then the next day thank him for the help on the homework.

11 Songs To Help You Get Over a Guy

This is a list of songs to help kick that guy out of your mind!


Fighter (Christina Aguilera)

She Will Be Loved (Maroon 5)

You Need Me, I Don't Need You (Ed Sheeran)

Ridin' Solo (Jason Derulo)

Gunpowder & Lead (Miranda Lambert)

I Look So Good Without You (Jessie James)

Before He Cheats (Carrie Underwood)

Stupid Boy (Keith Urban)

How Do You Like Me Now?! (Toby Keith)

Turn On The Radio (Reba)

Lover, Lover (Jerrod Neimann)

Trying to Get Over "That Guy"?

Is it because he is that guy you have liked since you were in 4th grade, was it because he was your first real boyfriend, or your first kiss?
Everyone has problems getting over the guy that was their first heartbreak. I have a couple of ideas to make that time shorter and less hard on the heart.
First off what a better way to not think about guys then to be surrounded by girls? Make a pact with your girls that it is a no boy night. Do a all out sleepover or go on the town and be happy, if he isn't on your mind he isn't weighing on your heart either.
My second idea is does everything you do remind you of the times when you were with him. Get a new look. I don't mean plastic surgery girls, i just mean maybe a haircut change the way you do your makeup wear different clothes then you usually do. The day i broke up with one of my boyfriends I had  hair cut, when it was done, I felt like I was a new me and he wasn't part of that me.
My last and most gutsy idea. Start talking to a new guy. It doesn't have to be you want a serious relationship, just talk and maybe grab a Starbucks. The easiest way to get over a guy is to find a new one right?

Now listen to this song, my friend suggested it to me.
Not Ready to Make Nice (Dixie Chicks)

5 Date Movies

Date Night (2010)
What starts an an amazing date soon turns sour into a much more adventurous evening after a case of mistaken identity.

50 First Dates (2004) 
Commitment-phobe Henry Roth thinks he has found his perfect girl, Lucy Whitmore, but after their first date he soon figures out she suffers from short term memory loss









Hitch (2005)
Alex Hitchens is a professional date doctor, but the advice he gives to other people does not work so well on the girl he has his eye on.

The Proposal (2009)

In order to avoid deportation to Canada, book editor, Margaret Tate has a plan to get her assistant, Andrew Paxton, to marry her. A skeptical immigration agent hardly believes the fake story, so the "new couple" much learn about each other on a fun weekend in Alaska. 

Valentine's Day (2010)

More than a dozen residents of Los Angeles, some taken some single, navigate Valentines Day from the early morning until the clock strikes midnight, each dealing with the pressures and expectations of the romantic holiday.