Nervous For Your First?

Haven't had your first kiss yet?
Relax, a lot of people haven't!
Super nervous?
I have a couple of ideas.

1. Have a smooch with your bestie. have a best guy friend that hasn't had his first kiss? Well then just make an arrangement 1. One lip lock only, this is not going to be a make out session 2. This is just a practice run, it means nothing 3. No one can ever know, it is just between you two. 
2. I know this sounds cliche, but make your hand your hottie for a couple of minutes. 1. you can feel what your kiss is like and adjust it. 2. no one will see in your room, and trust me a lot of people use this method, it is one of the old school. 
3. Use a balloon! Just blow on up and draw a super cutie on it. If you are a bad drawer however glue or tape a cute celeb on it. 1. You can work on your angle and position because a balloon is a similar shape to a human head. 2. If you wear lipstick you can see where you left a mark and adjust. 3. Good way to get confidence, if you draw your cutie it is a good way to boost it! 

Hope this helps!
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Why Do You Like Him?

Girls, do you like a guy out of your norm? A guy your friends think is not the one for you? Hear me out.
Is it his smile? Does it shine like a million stars?
Do you get lost in his eyes? Are they like an ocean or a green lush field you never want to leave from?
Is it his voice? Whenever he speaks do you feel light on your feet or like you are on cloud 9?
Have the hots for a cowboy? Is he the only one that could make you haul manure, carry hay, get on a horse, and role in the hay?
Do his lips haunt you? Do you just want to drop your books and jump over your desk just to kiss him?
Does he make you laugh no matter what? No matter what has happened do you that day he can make you crack a smile or bust a laugh?
Is it because there is never a dull moment?
When you aren't with him you just can't get his face out of your mind?
Is he a bad boy? You just can't deny that motorcycle and leather?
Does he challenge you? He makes you the maddest you have ever been, yet you just want to kiss him?
Do you have 1,000,000 things in common? No matter what, you guys always have one more thing in common then you thought?
Is it that athletic body? Do you swing by the gymnasium just to see him life weights shirtless?
Like a nerd? Have you ever enjoyed the library better?
Does he make your heart skip a beat? He looks at you, you feel like your going to faint?
Does he make you do things you never thought you would? Have you skydived, rock climbed, and rode a mechanical bull just for him?
No matter who he is, you have a legit reason for liking him. Let your friends and family figure out why you can't walk away form this amazing guy. Even better tell him why you can't walk away from him.

11 Ways to Ask a Guy to a Dance

1. Have one of your friends give your crush a T-Shirt that has a bunch of girls names written in expo, but your name will be written in Sharpie. Have your friend tell the guy to wash it. When he washes it only your name will remain. 
2. Make him a mix tape about three to four songs in record your own voice asking him to the dance.  
3. Make up a game of Last Man standing in one of your classes (ask for teachers permission) make up questions that make him the last man standing, the last question you teacher would read would be If you want to ask guys name to a dance stand up. You stand up and ask him to the dance. 
4. FOR BALLSY GIRLS ONLY: put it on a billboard! if there is someone local that you know and is on his route to school ask them if you can put guys name will you go to name of dance with me -your name 
5. A class you have with your cutie that has a lot of power point presentations would be a perfect way to ask him. A couple of days before you know your teacher is join to give Powerpoint ask her or him if they would put a slide at the end that said guys name will you go to name of dance with me -your name 
6. Write it on his car, before school, if he does sports during his practice, at lunch whenever you can  just run out and write will you go to the dance with me? -your name  
7. Make a Scavenger Hunt it could be around town, a park, a mall, or the school, make the clues easy, you don't want him to get stumped, and the prize is a sign the says go to the dance with me? when you know he is there come out behind a corner or a tree and wait for his answer which should be yes. 
8. Stuff his locker, Take something that won't take forever to pick up and put it in huge amounts in his locker, in it could be a not or write it on them that says will you go to the dance with me? Come up behind him and say "surprised?" of course he will be and of course say yes!
9. If your cutie loves animals use one! Write a cute use of words. Wrap a ribbon around it and tie it to the collar and let him find it 
10. Be a Secret Admirer! Slip a note into his locker that states: Your date, should you choose to accept it, will be with ________ at _________ (time) on ________ (day). You will be picked up by a person wearing ________. Your date will feel like he/she may self-destruct if you do not reply by ________. Make sure to keep your identity a secret! 
11. Make up a hole bunch of wanted posters post them around his house and his street, saying wanted for coming over to your name's house, when he shows up have wanted posters leading up to your door on your door it would say found a date for the dance? open your door and ask him.

Body Language

Your body language can tell a guy if your into him, don't like him, or just want to be friends. 

If you like him 
Sit by him as often as possible and make conversation. Listen to him attentively but act like you are distracted and smile at him often. When you see him doing something comment on it, never negative, but give him suggestions on how to make it better. When the cutie walks by your friends will most likely try to embarrass you, don't let them smile at him and wave. Eat clean and neat around him, you don't want him to think your a pig. When you guys get close don't be afraid to blush, guys think it's cute, don't be afraid to move away a little bit. While you are sitting look around but keep your legs and body pointed in his direction. Laugh & smile a lot, it is really obvious but oh well you want him to know you like him. Get a lot if inside jokes with him, this is one a conversation starter and two a good way to get close. Be near him whenever you can, not in a stalker-ish way but just to let him know you want to be close with him. Use your eyes, you know the old saying eyes are the window to the soul, use them to talk to him. Bite your bottom lip, not hard, just kind of slowly move your teeth over your bottom lip this draws attention to your lips and they guy usually thinks about kissing you. Twirl your hair, not often, but just enough to get his attention to you. Don't be afraid to put your hands on him, Lets say you and the other person are sitting next to each other, say a funny joke, while you guys are laughing, casually put your hand on this shoulder. 

If you don't him (want the conversation to end) 

Keep your answers and sentences short, this tells him that he isn't really interesting you. Get plenty of distance in between you, if he tries to move closer, move fairer away, this tells him that you don'y want to be close. If you see a friend or cutie walk by say you have to go meet up with him or her, one this makes him feel like you have better things to do then talk to him, two if you walk away with a cutie he gets ideas your taken. You can always just walk away with a lame excuse. 

If you just want to friends 

Don't dress up for him, if he is coming over just wear sweats, this tells him that you aren't tying to impress him. If your haning out in public flirt with other guys, this means you are still on the market and are looking to be taken off by someone that isn't him. Try to set him up with friends let him think you want him to be happy with someone other than you. Call him friend, buddy, or bro a lot, this lets him know you are seeing him as a friend and nothing more. Always keep a good amount of distance between you, remember though you guys are friends so you should be close, but not that close if you know what i mean. Get physical punch him on the arm or go play one on one and don't go easy on him, if you liked him you wouldn't punch him or go hard on him on a one on  one. Never let there be awkward silence, this gives you and him time to think and i promise you the first thing that is in the back of your minds is what if this friendship was something more, you don't want that so no silence. 

Haven't Talked in a While?

    Are you into a guy and think he is into you back? You guys are constantly texting and snap chatting and messaging each other online. Then suddenly it stops. No texts from him, when you text him first he seems annoyed and responds with one words answers and sometimes doesn't even reply at all. He opens the snap chat but never snaps you back. He sees that message on Facebook but never responds. Are you worried you blew it? Want to know why he does these things and maybe just maybe how to get things started again, then keep reading.
    There are a few reason that are almost always the reason. 1. He could be thinking things are going to fast and wants to take a break and make sure this is really what he wants, you can handle this by just giving him space wait for a week then text him once and just say hey, if he doesn't respond then just give him time and let him come to you. 2. He might be trying to figure out if likes you or just wants to be friends, this means that he could be thinking of you constantly but not knowing if he actually wants to date you or just be buds, handle this by texting him and saying hey dude, this means you don't care if you are friends or more than that you just want to be close to him. 3. He could of met another girl that he is really into and doesn't know to tell you, you handle this by just stop thinking about him, don't text snap or message him, focus your thoughts on another guy.
    Good Luck with you boy problems hope you guys works out!

Love,
Nichole

44 Ways to Know if a Guy Likes You

1. guy teases you (coppying) 

2. body languages (getting close) 

3.  the friends (pushing getting you two together) 

4. nervous when he is around you

5. be like you (have same intrest) (even though not) 

6. he tries to make you laugh 

7. he uses a lot of sarcasm 

8. smiles at you (a lot) 

9. is always trying to talk to you 

10. he does idiotic things to get your attention 

11. he is quite when he is with you 

12. hangs out with you even when you are with your buds 

13. always trying to impress you 

14. tries tomake you look at him

15. tries to make you jelous (talks to other girls) 

16. flirts with you in the weirdest ways 

17. if you just (even kind of glance at him) he smiles

18. makes it obvious that he is flirting 

19. makes it seem like your only friends (even though he wants to be more than that) 

20. tells his friends he likes you as only a friend (lier!) 

21. he looks at you when he sees or hears anything involving love 

22. asks you if you have a bf 

23. leans towards you in a conversation 

24. does you favors 

25. he is protective of you 

26. he will get jelous when you talk to other guys 

27. remembers EVERYTHING you say 

28. shows off to impress you 

29. hugs you a lot 

30. when you're around he acts immture with his buds and gazes over at you to see is you think it's funny
31. always happy and smiley when you are around 

32. ask your friends about you 

33. tickles you just to hear you laugh 

34. follows you around (not stalking) 

35. says your name a lot 

36. watch his friends (do they grin at him and punch his shoulder when you walk past?) 

37. always sits by you 

38. texts you all the time 

39. calls you for no reason 

40. apologizes for his friends when they make fun of you 

41. says sorry for every little thing 

42. he will "accidentally" touch you 

43. walks really close to you 

44. when you touch he doesn't move