Having trouble finding the difference between friends and bf gf?

Can you not decide whether you and your best guy friends are more then that? I asked two guys what they thought on the subject Tyler & Ethan. These guys both had very different answers to my questions.
Tyler has a best girl friend and is very very close to her and does similar things that me and my close guy friend do.
Ethan has a girlfriend of 18 months and most of his friends are guys.
I will start off with Ethan.
Me: I think my really good guy friend likes me, but i don't know how to tell the difference or how a guys brain is wired?
Ethan: Well from my point of view, I would say if he texts you first..... That's not a big one though! Try to see if he glances your way a bunch! Or if he's like flirty and makes contact with you a lot! And if your like in a group of people and he tries talking to you more than anybody else! That's what I think!!
Me:Thanks. But i do have an example for you. He has a gf and she is visiting family in Texas so after mini golf on Saturday he was takin me home and he asked if he could put his arm around me cause he missed his gf, gave me his sweatshirt and was like totally into it. But it is confusing cause he had a gf!
Ethan: What kind of person is he? Cause right now he doesn't sound like a good a guy!?
Me: have known this guy since i was 4. But i have to admit he can be player. But he is like a sibling to me. I don't think he would ever hurt a girl on purpose. But you never know...
Ethan: Yeah, you would be surprised by some people, I think he might be working his way into becoming a cheater! I'm not saying to avoid him or anything, but if he tries doing stuff, you have to tell him to stop!! Cause like with me in a relationship I want other people to respect that I and Bri are dating! If he starts doing more than what friends would do then I would tell him to stop and remind him that he has a gf.
Now i personally thought that Ethan went a little bit extreme. Now here is Tyler's point of view.
Me: Hey, i really need some stupid boy advice.
Tyler: You came to the right person what do ya need?
Me: I think my best guy friend guy likes me.
Tyler: I need examples! (he laughs)
Me:so after mini golf on Saturday he was takin me home and he asked if he could put his arm around me cause he missed his gf, gave me his sweatshirt and was like totally into it.
Tyler: He has a girlfriend?
Me: Yea, that is the curveball.
Tyler: If her didn't have a girlfriend I would ask him, cause it never hurts to ask. Since he has a girlfriend though i would hold off.
Me: What should I do about the whole putting his arm around me and all that stuff?
Tyler: Friends are allowed to that! Stop worrying and go with the flow.
Now as you can see both of the guys had very different answers to my question. They have both had different experiences. Everyone's relationships are different ask a guy you are close to and knows your relationship with the bgf (best guy friend) if yours.

Is he more then bedazzled?

Is he a real guy or just a stud?
When he talks to you does he ask you about his day or about his awesome day with his buds. Does he say how beautiful you are or how beautiful he is? Can you see having a lasting relationship with his ugly personality or his flawless body.
My advice would be it is always fun to go out on a couple dates with a flawless bodied guy take some pics with him and post them on Facebook to make every other girl in your friends list jaws drop. But what I am trying to get at those are that those are just some dates not starting an actual relationship with him cause once you jump in with him there is not way of getting out.

Even Though You're Not Gonna Marry Them You Gotta Try

Are you debating on liking someone cause you know you are not going to marry them? Going out with people is so you can find the person you will find out who you will end up marrying. So what, your relationship could be 4 months 4 years or who knows forever, you never know how much you and that other person will click.

On the other hand if you like someone that doesn't want to go out with you because they aren't going to marry you, but you like them. You just got to tell them that so what you guys are going to break up but you got to live in the moment and not always think about forever. Cause Forever and Always is over rated. 

Grades Before Love.....

I want to take a little break from the crazy world of love and enter into the even crazier world of studies. No matter how hard you try you cannot escape the boar of studying for a test. So I have some tips on how to better your study habits.
 Move Before You Study

Maybe your mom or dad tells you to do your homework as soon as you get off the bus. Ask if you can shoot hoops or run for 15 or 20 minutes first. Explain that you're not trying to put off your work. It's just that exercising your body may help your brain.

Kids in a Chicago-area school do PE first if they're having problems with math or reading. They do much better on tests after they exercise. Moving before you do homework can help get your brain ready to study.

 Pick Your Study Spot

Your parents may have set up a great desk in a quiet room. But you feel better doing homework on the floor in the living room or in your bedroom. The important thing is to find a place where you'll pay attention.

Your bedroom might give you privacy. That's great if you have annoying brothers or sisters. But if you start looking at the stuff in your room instead of your math problems, find another place to work. It may even help kids study better when they do homework in different places, just to break up the routine.

 Listen to Music While You Study

When it's time to do your homework, your parents might want you to do it quietly. But you might want to listen to music. What's the best thing to do?

There's really no easy answer. Some kids study better with music because it helps them ignore other sounds around them. Other kids get so into the music that they forget about what they're supposed to be doing. Try it and see how you do. 

Just be sure to pick music that won't have you singing instead of paying attention to your homework. Save that music for when you take a break. Then get up and dance for five to 10 minutes.

 Take Breaks While You Study

Maybe your parents want you to sit and do your homework until it's done. But taking a short break might help you concentrate. When you work on something for a long time, you may start thinking about other things. You might start daydreaming about your soccer game or an upcoming party. Then your mind sure isn't on homework. 

So get up, do some jumping jacks or take a 10-minute walk. Then come back to your homework. You should be ready to focus again.

Don't know if you like him or not?

Do have mixed feeling towards a guy? Well i know there could be some reason so i'm gonna go by the different situations you could be in and explain what you should do.
The Player- Is there a guy that you like, and he likes you too, but his nickname in school is player? Even though he swears he has changed and that you are different always keep your eyes open. There is a saying that once a player always a player. There of course are times when he has actually changed for you because he really truly knows that you are the only girl for him. My advice however is you can say yes, but keep your eyes open.
The Best Friend- Do you and you best guy friend have chemistry? This is always one of the hardest things to deal with and one of the most awkward like like situations. I am actually in a situation right now. and the same questions i am asking myself are most likely the same questions you are asking yourself. When we break up will we still be friends, because i don't want to ruin that? That always depends on you two and how the relationship ends and how good of friends you really are, i cannot give you a absolute answer on that one. Would it be awkward?  Most likely not because you guys are best friends and it will be the same except you hold hands and kiss and that kind of stuff. My advice would be look at your friendship and say would we actually work.
The Ex- Do you have feeling for your ex? Well i am going to make this short and to the point if he is your ex then you guys didn't work out in the first place why would you go though it again? The only time i would say yes to this is if you guys went out like 3 years ago and it wasn't serious.
The Stranger- Do you like a guy that you don't know that well. Well if i were you i would ask him out, but get to know him a little better before you guys actually go out on a official date.

Do You not Know what to do on Your Friday Nights?

Do you have the fun friday night slum? Well i have a lot of different ideas to help you with that. Number one, for my high school readers, go to the football / volleyball game! Support your school. For my younger readers, go to the movie theater with some of your buds. And for all ages, have a movie night at your house wether it is by yourself or with buds. I am actually having my own movie night, I am watching a whole bunch of cheesy Halloween movies to get me in the season. I also have a movie planned for me and and of my friends. Of course there is always plan a slumber party, but try to think out of the box, just don't always do the same old same old.

5 Dates For Fall

1. Corn Maze- What is a better night then walking in a maze getting lost with a super cute guy, then after eating a snack and sitting by the bonfire?!?!? Corn maze is always my top pick for a fall date. Just let your min dander for a sec, you are walking with your boy in the corn maze purposely getting lost deeper and deeper asking each other random questions about their likes dislikes and life. Then suddenly you both stop look at each other and bam awesome lip lock times!!!! 
2. Pick a Pumpkin- Go to a pumpkin patch and get a pumpkin then go home to your or his house and carve it, if you are competitive get two then carve your best carve and see who is better. Also if you ain't afraid to get down and dirty with the pumpkin fight don't be afraid to start throughing pumpkin guts at your bf's face.
3. Park Date- Go out to a park, though this when they are at their prettiest ya know. Eat on a bench then walk around till you find the perfect tree sit under it talk or have a little bit of lip lock action! :)
4. Have a Movie Night- It is just now starting to get dark early and it is getting too cold to do things at night so why don't you just pack in on the couch with a bunch of junk food and watch your favorite movies. Ones you both like don't make him sit through a chick flick and he won't make you sit through a action movie. Get some comedies or some adventure movies. Snuggling+ laughing + kissing a little bit + eating yummy food = an awesome night. 
5. Wanna Learn How to Play Football?- Tell your boy that you wanna learn how to play his favorite sport, football, go out to a football field and have him teach you. Which of course will be better then you all are thinking right now. After go to a coffee shop and get something warm to revive those frozen fingers.