I was on youtube when I came along the song, Kiss the Girl by Ashley Tisdale, yea guys from the Little Mermaid, but it gave me the idea for this post.
Guys are you afraid to kiss your date, or girlfriend? Here is the thing the guy for centuries has been the instigator the first kiss between a couple. But i guarantee all guys, no matter what get nervous about that first kiss you two share. There are many reasons for this to occur, what is there are no sparks? What if I mess up? What is she doesn't want to? What if I do it too much? What if I don't kiss her long enough? What is the point of kissing her anyways? Why does she need me to do it? These are valid questions for you guys to be asking.
Q. What if there are no sparks?
A.This is your first kiss with this amazing girl, if you really like her, and she really likes you, there will always be that fire lit when you kiss. When the fire is extinguished you shouldn't try to rekindle the fire, but rather let it burn out.
Q.What if i mess up?
A.All first kisses between couples are always pretty dang awkward, but with practice you guys will be pros with each other's lips.
Q.What if she doesn't want to?
A.I guarantee she wants to kiss you. If she doesn't want to kiss you, you guys aren't a couple, you guys are two people of the opposite sex that hang out and call each other boyfriend and girlfriend.
Q.What if I kiss her too long or too short?
A.You can never have your timing down on the first kiss, my advice is to kiss her long enough for you to count to 7.
Q.What's the point of kissing her?
A.Like said in one of the previous questions, if you guys don't kiss or do anything romantic you guys are not together, you are two people of the opposite sex who hang out a lot and call each other boyfriend and girlfriend. Just kiss her!
Q.What is it I that needs to do it?
A.This question is actually one of the main questions I am asked. It annoys me a lot when guys ask me this. You guys always say how you want to be the main in the relationship, so act like it guys.
Below is the song that inspired me to write you guys this post, i know it cheesy, but you know you want to!
Kiss The Girl
Wednesday, January 22, 2014
Tuesday, January 21, 2014
Dating in 2014
We have reached 2014! The end of the world has not come, the arctic has not melted and a zombie apocalypse is not upon us. However your year might be needing a new thing involved, maybe a boy or girl you have been interesting in but just don't know how to ask him or her out yet? I have ideas.
You can always go classic with putting a note in his or her locker, but that is so old i think the dinosaurs used it. Here is a little more of an updated way go to your mall or wherever you have a photo booth and get in there and in one picture have a sign that says her name, then another that says will you go out then another that says with me then the last one with a ? he or she will know that you put time and thought about how you want to go out with them. If you are highly musical then write him or her a song, i don't know about you but that impressed me a ton when it happened to me, it shows how special you are to that person. If you are daring write it on her car / on the sidewalk out front of her house and i trust you as long as she knows you pretty well she won't think your a stalker instead he to she will be thinking about if you were this open to ask her out what awesome things are going to happen on the date. If your boy/girl is athletic there are two ways you can do this number one you can write on whatever ball is in her sport be mine on it or number two take softball, baseballs, basketballs, pom poms, footballs, what ever sport she or be plays and write Date? yes or no in them. If you work at place she goes to a lot, is it's a retail store make sure he or she goes to your checkout when you hand her the receipt on the back write date? If you work at a food place make sure your the one that is either her waiter or is the one that she pays on her check write it would be me a lot of joy to go out to dinner with you, when I'm not you waiter. Dating in 2014 is all about being creative. Sure you can always just hit em up with a text, or swing by their locker and say you me movie Saturday night 5:00. She or he will be psyched that you asked him out, but they (especially girls) will be so much more excited if they know you put thought into it. If you don't want them to remember how you first asked them out, you shouldn't be asking them out in the first place. Happy asking!
~Nichole 💕
You can always go classic with putting a note in his or her locker, but that is so old i think the dinosaurs used it. Here is a little more of an updated way go to your mall or wherever you have a photo booth and get in there and in one picture have a sign that says her name, then another that says will you go out then another that says with me then the last one with a ? he or she will know that you put time and thought about how you want to go out with them. If you are highly musical then write him or her a song, i don't know about you but that impressed me a ton when it happened to me, it shows how special you are to that person. If you are daring write it on her car / on the sidewalk out front of her house and i trust you as long as she knows you pretty well she won't think your a stalker instead he to she will be thinking about if you were this open to ask her out what awesome things are going to happen on the date. If your boy/girl is athletic there are two ways you can do this number one you can write on whatever ball is in her sport be mine on it or number two take softball, baseballs, basketballs, pom poms, footballs, what ever sport she or be plays and write Date? yes or no in them. If you work at place she goes to a lot, is it's a retail store make sure he or she goes to your checkout when you hand her the receipt on the back write date? If you work at a food place make sure your the one that is either her waiter or is the one that she pays on her check write it would be me a lot of joy to go out to dinner with you, when I'm not you waiter. Dating in 2014 is all about being creative. Sure you can always just hit em up with a text, or swing by their locker and say you me movie Saturday night 5:00. She or he will be psyched that you asked him out, but they (especially girls) will be so much more excited if they know you put thought into it. If you don't want them to remember how you first asked them out, you shouldn't be asking them out in the first place. Happy asking!
~Nichole 💕
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