Long Distance Relationships

    Everyone always thinks long distance relationships can never work, is that really true? This is why i am  writing this post. I have done A LOT of research on the topic and here is what i found.
    I found that most long distance relationship take a lot if work, you can't exactly meet up every other weekend and have a McDonalds date. You instead have to schedule Skypes and a lot of phone conversations and airport time or getting to know your car better. This though can bring problems because a little fight phone on the phone could be monumentally bad for the relationship, you can't meet up at a town cafe and decide what happens you have to figure it out long distance. Also you can't talk over the phone with your body you have to use your words is all your conversations are "Cool", "Awesome", and "How is it up there?" Things will die down pretty fast. Long distance relationship are hard no matter how hard you try, but if the love is true and can go through the fire then it is a very strong love, stronger than most. At that i will leave you with two quotes.

Together forever, never apart, maybe in distance, but never in the heart
-Anonymous

Distance isn't for the fearful, it's for the bold, it's for this willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for a little time with the one that they really love, it's for those you know a good thing when they see it, even though they don't see it nearly enough
-Anonymous

💋 Nichole 

Are guys diffrent in high school?

A common question hat people ask me is. Are boys different when they reach high school?
the answer is yes they do and no they don't they are the same boys since sixth grade. As boys reach high school they are influenced by upperclassmen and are taught how to be more mature also the thought in their mind of going into high school and older girls taunt them and they usually they want to look like a dork so they man up and most of the shananigans stop. They however can be the same old boys at times they will pull pranks, break hearts, and act like boys. Hope this answered your question!


Love, 💋 Nichole 

Stuck in the Friend Zone?

The term "friend zone" is usually pointed towards boys, but girls can also be "friend zoned". Here are some tips to get out.
1. Tell him how you feel, guys like honesty.
2. Start hanging out one on one more often, see if sparks fly.
3. if there is a beginning of the year dance at your school ask him. If he acts weird just say let's go as friends.
Hope this helps you get out of the "friend zone". Good luck! 😊 

💋
Nichole 

Summer love or Forever love?

Met a guy this summer? if you have here are some questions you need to ask yourself.
1. Can you see dating this guy once school starts? (you won't see each other as much)
2. Does he live far away or is he a homeboy? (90% of long distance relationships don't work out)
3. Do you guys really talk and go on dates or is it just a love love relationship? (kissing doesn't make a    relationship)

Now that you have answered those questions, think about this now.
1. Are looking for a long or short relationship?
2. Are you willing to let go at the end of summer?
3. Is he worth it?

You are probably by now hating this post because it was right, maybe you are in true love, or you are calling him right now to ask him some questions.

Need some more advice on "summer love"?
Email me at- 411lovedoctor@gmail.com