Like a Guy out of your LEAGUE?

   Do you like a guy that doesn't even know your first name? i have advice.......
   Don't just randomly talk to him, he DOESN'T know you! Another don't bring your friend into it, it will just make things more difficult.......... Just wait for the right time which probably isn't for AWHILE... just hang tight and enjoy the ride :)

Do you really like him?

   Not sure if you like him??????? Need some help????? You got it!

•    1. First off set a timer for a minute then write all the things you have in common. (Write things you KNOW you have in common not things you THINK you had in common). When the timer goes off count up all your answers if you got more then 10 great!!!!! If you got less well there is one sign that this might not work out :( 
•    2.  Make a pros and cons list make sure this includes........ What he has done to past girl friends (cheating, moving too fast ect.), things of his appearance, and in common things.
•    3. Ask a friend have them also be your love doctor! no one knows what you like better then your friend. Also ask around some of the guys very CASUALLY! Don't make it obvious. just ask them what they think about him or if he's jerk.

Have your first date this weekend? Nervous? Here are some ideas.
   If your main fear is that it;s gonna be awkward between you guys. Go somewhere where you don't have to talk. Like the movies if he brings up an awkward subject just say that the good part is coming up to avoid it.
   Worried he's gonna make a move? Go with some buds. Usually the guy will tone it down especially if one of his good guy friends is there they will probably just mess around the whole night.
    Worried he's not gonna make a move? I just went on my first date with my boyfriend and he was afraid to make a move on me cause he thought i wouldn't want to. Reassure him or tell your buddy bout it and have that person talk to him. I talked to the other guy that was going and he made the move happen.
  Hope this helped! :)

Want To Get Over Your Ex?

  Do you have an Ex that you are still into but don't want to be into. There could be many reasons why you are still into him. Was he your first Boyfriend? Was he your first Kiss? Can you just not get over him for some reason? Well I have some ways you can get him off your heart.
  1. Go downtown with your girls have some fun scout out the hotties like you use to and each time you spot one think of why he is better than your ex.
  2. Is there a guy that has been into you lately start texting him and find out what he is like!
  3. Plan a vacation with your fam or buds like to the beach it will get your mind off of it and the guys are always hotter some where you have never been. Especially at the beach (if you know what i mean)

I hope that helped your Ex issues keep checking my blog for new posts! :)

GET-A-BF-THIS-YEAR-GUIDE :) Part 4

Show Off Your Interest 

The Move

In a close condo with your crush? Give Him a one-two punch (flirty eyes and a well trimmed compliment). Here's how. Hold your guys gaze giving him a smize. (smiling with your eyes) for a few seconds. Then shoot out a compliment. (It can be about anything!) Now just watch as he blushes and grin from ear to ear ---- score! 

 Why It Works 

It will make the guy realize he wants to finish the convo and not cut it short. And your not available 24/7 you are a girl he will have to fight for! :) 

email me at: 411lovedoctor@gmail.com 

ask me any questions about a guy / girl you want i will answer them live on the blog! :) 

(if you want your name to stay hidden just tell me you want it that way and i will keep it anonymous) 

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Hang Tight 

The Move

Just like how you hang out with someone new to get to know them better the same is with crushes. Ask him to hang out and shoot some hoops or see your favorite band with your buddies. Make sure it's casual. Pretty soon he will start to see you on a different light. 

Why It Works

Guys want a friend before they want to call their GF they want to know that they can be themselves around you. 

Get-A-BF-This-Year-Guide :) Part 2

Let His Fingers Do The Texting 

The Mission

  Guys like to think about why you won't text him let him text you first. Then make him wait for a reply 1hour and 10 minutes is the perfect amount of time if you do it 1 hour on the dot then it's too obvious of what you are doing. 

Why It Works 

If you are always texting a lot especially if he isn't responding makes you look desperate. If he is interested in you he will tell you, wait it out.

Get-A-BF-This-Year-Guide :) Part 1

Make a Statement 

The Move 

 When your in a group with your crush don't let everyone else do the talking. Ask your crush a question about something you have in common (sports, school, favorite movie / band) anything works. 

Why It Works 

Your crush will see that you aren't shy. You being a girl he can actually talk to will score you some serious points. 

Eye on a Popular?

  Do you have the hots for a popular guy well i had some solutions to catch his eye.

  

1. Popular guys are always surrounded try saying hi while he is at his locker or if your by each other leaving class then you won't have to jam through a crowd to get to the hottie and look desperate. 

2. Usually the #1 guy in the school is usually a real sports adict challenge him to one on one basketball or who can hit a baseball farther. (only for athletic girls) 

3. If you see him at the mall or anywhere else don't jump up an down just wave and mouth hi. 

   
I hope this helped you! Good luck getting the #1 at your school!

an eye on a guy

 Do you have an eye on a guy? Do you know how to get him? Does he like you back? Here are some ways to fix all these problems.
  Either you have an eye on a guy that is your best friend, a guy that you have never met, the captain of the football team, or the leader of chess club. All guys pretty much think the same you probably wouldn't think that a nerd knows all the tricks that a jock does, but most of them do.
  Here are some easy tricks to help get a guy.
1. Everyone can say what they want to say easier on text or email than in person, because when you are standing on front of the guy you are nuts about you usually are think i cant do this, but when you are in front of a keyboard you think i can do this what is it going to hurt.
2.  If you are nervous for your first date chillax just go with some buddies or in a public place it always makes it you feel better to have someone else to talk to and get quick advice from.
3.  If you are bugging to know if your crush likes you back then just ask him! If he doesn't then oh well there are plenty more guys on the planet! :)
I hope you enjoyed this post of for ant questions you might have email me at: 411lovedoctor@gmail.com